Scam Library
Romance Scams
Scammers build emotional relationships online, then invent emergencies or opportunities to request money.
How it works
- Contact begins on social media or dating apps.
- Trust develops over weeks.
- Sudden crises require money: medical bills, travel, customs fees.
Warning signs
- Profiles that seem too perfect
- Always avoids video calls
- Declares love quickly
- Asks for money or gift cards
Scenario
Illustrative example: After two months chatting, an overseas 'engineer' asks for help paying customs fees to send a parcel of gifts.
This scenario is fictional and for illustration only.
How to protect yourself
- Never send money to someone you haven't met
- Reverse-search profile photos
- Talk to a trusted friend
If you've been affected
- Stop all contact with the scammer and do not send any more money or information.
- Contact your bank or mobile money provider immediately to block or reverse transactions where possible.
- Change passwords and PINs for any accounts that may be exposed.
- Keep screenshots, numbers, links and receipts as evidence.
- Report the incident to the Botswana Police Service, and report the number in the ScamProtect app to warn others.